Managing Performance Anxiety: 5 Tips for Freelancers
Kathryn StinsonPerformance anxiety is a part of life. We all have it. It drives us to work harder and improve at what we do, but too much of it can also kill your creativity, drain your energy and severely impact productivity.
Freelancing comes with its fair share of anxiety provoking conditions. The solo aspect of it alone can be scary, not to mention the variability in income, and if you’re new at it, the inevitable learning curve when it comes to business skills.
A healthy level of performance anxiety that gets your heart pumping and sharpens your attentiveness can be an asset if you know how to make the most of it. But how do you regain control when anxiety starts to run the show?
1. Learn to recognize when anxiety becomes a problem. Avoidance is the hallmark of anxiety-dominated thinking. Procrastination, perfectionism and creating distraction are all ways of avoiding tasks that cause anxiety. If you find yourself perpetually preparing and perfecting projects but missing deadlines, or doing low priority work while high priority projects suffer, anxiety may have the upper hand. Ask yourself if performance anxiety is pushing you to perform better or causing you to freeze up.
2. Take a deep breath. When you’re anxious, your breathing becomes shallow. Breathe deeply instead. Breathe all the way down into your stomach. It has an instant calming effect and brings more oxygen to the brain so you can focus.
3. Set priorities with a calm mind. Trying to problem solve in the throes of anxiety is never a good idea. Make a time management plan when your mind is clear. When you’re tempted to spend all your time on one project to the detriment of everything else, consult the plan you created when you were a little more sane, and follow it.
4. Spend half an hour worrying. A certain level of worry helps you plan for the future. But worried thoughts that intrude and distract you will drain your productivity like nothing else. Set aside 30 minutes each day to worry. Get really worked up about everything you fear could go wrong. Write it all down. Then put it away and go back to work. If you find yourself worrying again, tell yourself to save it for next time. Don’t do this right before you go to bed. Plan to do something specific immediately afterwards, and don’t drag it out.
5. Commiserate. In a 9-to-5 job, there are coworkers around that can help you with a reality check every once in awhile. You compare notes about things, and when you’re worried, you have people to talk to. With solo work, it’s important to create that kind of social network for yourself. Talk to friends about how projects are going. Share your fears and let them remind you how focused and talented you are. Network with other freelancers. Read Freelance Switch. Remind yourself that you’re not alone.
Kathryn Stinson is a beginning freelance writer and therapist-in-training.





















Ethan Gardner - Cincinnati Web Design
May 28th, 2008
Anyone interested in performance or raising their game should read any of the “Inner Game” books. Since one of my hobbies is music, and I learned a lot of valuable lessons from the “Inner Game of Music” that can also be applied to my career as a freelance web designer and front-end web developer. Two key ideas are 1) that giving ourselves permission to fail ultimately leads to success and 2) performance = potential - interference, an idea that I intend to write about in the near future.
TPN WEB DESIGN INC.
May 28th, 2008
Funny List but its true.
Kaleigh Miller
May 28th, 2008
Awesome article!!! This should be handed out in every classroom. I know I get anxious right before something important is about to happen. I really need to take 30 minutes out of my day to worry instead of wasting an entire day or more sweating the small stuff. Great job!!!
Leppae
May 28th, 2008
I’m not the worst person to worry, but we all tend to get a bit anxious when work is low and there is nothing new on the horizon. Beeing fairly new to the game i still have a lot to learn, but so far I have noticed that talking with friends about your work really helps to calm me down. A positive word from someone you know can do wonders some times. And really, they don’t mind (at least i hope they dont ;)).
Mark Abucayon
May 28th, 2008
Great article I love reading this one. This is so true. Thanks
Lisa
May 28th, 2008
Just what I needed to read right now! Thanks.
Carina Maydon
May 28th, 2008
As someone who suffers from social anxiety (and acute performance anxiety), I recognise a lot of truths in this article that I’ve learned the hard way while working through my anxiety.
Two tips I would add that follows on from number 1 in your list, is when you find yourself avoiding work and procrastinating:
Carina Maydon
May 28th, 2008
1. Stop and do nothing for 15 minutes - absolutely nothing. No email, no TV, no internet, no work, no reading. Just sit there. Doing this really got me itching to do something!
2. Commit to working in small chunks only, such as 15 minutes, or whatever works for you. Then promise yourself a break to faff around and do whatever after you’ve completed those 15 minutes. Repeat as often as you can. Every small bit of work counts in aggregate. Don’t allow yourself to be overwhelmed by large projects - they’re only a couple of 15 minute chunks. This was a lifesaver for me.
3. Avoid perfectionism - very few things need to be perfect (heck, even love isn’t perfect!). Learn to recognize when things are good enough!
Patrick Heck
May 28th, 2008
I loved to read your article. I guess it’s true that performance anxiety is an inevitable (and somewhat useful) part of every creative person’s life. The tip about setting aside half an hour a day for worrying sounds very interesting. I’d love to read more from you.
BANAGO
May 28th, 2008
Very helpful, thanks!
Lori
May 28th, 2008
Great advice on the worrying for 30 minutes. It is so easy to get caught up in agonizing over things we can’t control. It can be hard to avoid so that is a great idea to set a time limit, get it out of our systems and move on. Enjoyed the article, very helpful.
Robert John
May 28th, 2008
Nice to know this is normal. I also get to experience anxiety in front of a client and it really shows the more you resist. I guess you really souldn’t fight it but ride with it in a calm way. thanks!
dianewb
May 28th, 2008
This is so great. Thank you! I’ve recently been trying to coming to terms with the fact that perfectionism is a lie. I’ve never heard of it referred to as an avoidance tactic, but it absolutely is. I’ve found help by making very small attainable goals, and then I don’t get so overwhelmed and anxious.
And I’ll definitely try the 30 min of worrying a day. If I can indulge myself for that little bit a day, then surely it will be easier to let go of it during the rest of the day! Great post. Thanks so much.
Joefrey Mahusay
May 29th, 2008
Great article Thanks!
Erin
May 29th, 2008
– I have read several places that worrying for 30 minutes helps. I have yet to try but need to.
– what about calming pills? I have seen alot of those around lately (ex: http://getabsolutecalm.com/professional/?utm_source=Google&utm_medium=media&utm_content=Professional&utm_campaign=BlogCommenting)
– I can’t seem to connect to the feed on my netvibes, but am really interested.. any help?
petnos
May 30th, 2008
These are exactly true.
kristen
May 31st, 2008
what a great article topic that you’ve unearthed. i think this is such a huge part of life for freelancers, even those who don’t have problems with stress and anxiety!