10 Tips to Stay Motivated, Sane and Productive
Maintaining enthusiasm, productivity levels, a sense of humor and general sanity can sometimes be a challenge for career freelancers!
Here are ten lessons that every successful freelancer has learned: lessons that will help keep you on the right track in the world of going it alone.
Have you learned these lessons yet?
If you haven’t, start today!
- Failure isn’t the end of the world. Remember that you are learning what works and, by the same token, what doesn’t work: whether it’s a new software package or way of dealing with a particularly difficult client. Often we expect to be perfect at something we haven’t ever attempted before and are too hard on ourselves. Remember that each time we make a mistake, we learn something valuable. Take a risk, apply what you learned and up your chances of success next time round.
- Work your referrals. I have a client (let’s call her Anne) who has asked me to rewrite a sales presentation that her client is using to present to their client to get them to buy Anne’s company’s solution. If that was confusing, all it means is that Anne has effectively got her client to do her selling for her! Pretty impressive. Asking one of your clients to refer you to one of their contacts can be a great way to expand your client base — assuming, of course, that your client is happy with your service.
- Network, network, network. Find a networking environment that suits your personality. (I am so not a 7am power-breakfast networker so I go to a dinner-based one instead.) Then make the effort to attend regularly and to try to meet a few new people each time and exchange cards. Networking events are great for potential collaborations, making new friends, finding a mentor and hey, just getting out of the house for a while! I’m most daunted by trying to join an established conversation circle at a networking do. Simply present yourself with an open smile on your face and say ‘hi!’. It works.
- Fake it ‘til you make it. I love this one. Remember Anna in ‘The King and I’ who used to whistle a happy tune whenever she was afraid? This is the same thing. Acting like you’re confident and know what you’re doing has interesting results: one day you’ll realise you’re not faking it anymore. It will come naturally to you.
- Apply the 80:20 rule. The majority of your income probably flows from around 20% of your clients. And the majority of stress, or hassle, probably comes from a vocal minority of clients – who usually don’t pay you much! Do a client audit and see whether you should jettison any high-maintenance-but-low-revenue clients in order to spend more time and energy finding more low-maintenance-high-revenue ones.
- Have a great elevator pitch. This is the minute-long answer to ‘so what do you do?’. Prepare it and then practice it at networking events. It needs to be succinct, clear, unambiguous, interesting, engaging and memorable –- and chances are you’ll have to adapt it slightly according to who you are talking to. Think about it from the listener’s perspective. What will ‘hook’ them and pique their curiosity? What will resonate with them? I tell people I am a marketing matchmaker -– much more interesting than telling them I run an online directory of creative industry freelancers.
- It’s all about value. If you can’t demonstrate the value in what you’re offering, people won’t buy it. You need to put yourself in the client’s shoes and understand what is important to them and what their real wants are. The easiest way to find out? Ask! Then communicate this value in everything you do and in all your marketing materials.
- What doesn’t get measured, doesn’t get done. It’s all very well having goals and a vision, but you can’t measure them, or your progress in achieving them – they’ll always remain elusive. So if you want to get 10 new clients by the end of the year, set yourself monthly targets and action plans and establish how you’re going to achieve that goal. Simple, but crucial for success.
- Put the gems in first. In her inspiring training sessions, entrepreneur and motivational speaker Julie Lenzer Kirk (www.julielenzerkirk.com) hands out jars of coloured sand and bags containing about 20 glass ‘gems’. “Now work out how to get all the gems in the jar with the sand” she instructs. Of course, the only way to do it is to take the sand out, put the gems in first, and then pour the sand in so it fills the spaces. How often do we fill our lives up with sand and find there’s no space for the gems? Work out what the gems are in your business and personal lives and make sure you’re putting them in the jar first.
- Know which balls are glass and which are rubber. Another great analogy from Julie is that while we’re all juggling many different balls in our lives, it’s crucial to know which will bounce (rubber) and which will shatter (glass) if we drop them. These will probably change during your life so assess regularly which ‘balls’ you need to be prioritizing. Non-negotiables like quality family time, ‘date night’ with your partner or filing your tax returns on time are likely to be glass forever.
Jo Duxbury is the founder and manager of ‘marketing matchmaking’ site www.freelancentral.co.za – an online directory of ad/marketing industry freelancer portfolios in South Africa. She’s also a freelance writer and editor who loves marking up copy in red pen – and can produce a mean PowerPoint presentation.




Thanks for a solid post.
I do, however, worry about your choice of words for #4. Your description is fine, and I would agree with it, however so many people have abused the idea of “Fake it till you make it”. It is great to pretend to be confident, however it is not great to spend money you don’t have, to build up debt and to tell people stories that are not true.
In my industry, the home business industry, this is something that has created a bad reputation for some companies – and thereby the industry as a whole. It is one of the things I advise clients to look for when they are comparing a good home business company to be with, compared with one that they shouldn’t. It relates to culture and integrity.
So, do act confident and act like you know what you are doing. Not only will you gain confidence but you’ll be spurred to get better. Do not use “fake it till you make it” as an excuse to buy that new car or new suit when you can’t afford it. Be honest and true with your clients, but do so confidently!
Number 10 should be number 1…
It goes hand in hand with the 80:20 rule and whether we like to admit it or not, comes into play everyday of our lives many times over. Acknowledging it is the hardest thing you can do however once you do the amount of control you gain over you work and person life is liberating.
Nice Post
This is definitely encouraging. Wonderful Post.
i think networking is one of the most important things..
Jo,
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Quality post JO, but I require motivation to motivate me into applying your motivators.
Austin
I would love to hear how other freelancers word their “elevator pitch”. When I say I’m a web designer, I can almost hear them thinking “Yeah, my neighbour’s brother’s 15 year old son designs web sites…” Besides, I’m part designer, part developer, part project manager. Kind of a Web Business Facilitator. It’s hard to put it into words.
Wow, Jo! I can’t believe how much you have retained and then added to from our time together in the States! Thanks for paying it forward to help others be successful – that is what it is all about!
To Joomla Developer: The key to your elevator pitch is not tell someone WHAT you do, it is to tell them how you can help them. Let’s face it, we’re all mostly self-concerned so people want to hear how you can solve their problem. What you do is just the tools you use but what’s the REAL value you provide to your clients. THAT’S how to hook them in less than a minute with an elevator speech. After all, your goals is not to have them totally get what you do, it is to make them want to know more.
Julie Lenzer Kirk
President, Path Forward International
Author, The ParentPreneur Edge: What Parenting Teaches About Building a Successful Business (Wiley)
http://www.JulieLenzerKirk.com
For many of us networking is something we would rather avoid, however its impact is unlimited. The adage “it is all who you know” can not be overstated. Networking helps find jobs and it SHOULD and WILL help you find the right person if you use Sparkbliss.
After feeble attempts to use popular online dating sites, it became clear my chance of finding meaningful companionship would have to come from somewhere else. Rather than lose hope and give up, I decided to create and launch Sparkbliss. It offers a private and safe approach to online dating that leverages what has always been the best way to meet people – introductions from your circle of friends. In fact “63% of married couples met through a network of friends” according to a recent Temple University study.
Joel M. Blatt
Founder
http://www.sparkbliss.com
This is a great article Jo. It’s actually relevant for all entrepreneurs. Good advice, and nicely laid out. Thanks for the link to Julie Lenzer Kirk’s website, I just know I’ll get great benefit from it.
I’m glad you’re writing for Freelanceswitch.com – trouble is, now they won’t let you go!
I’ll see you soon Jo
Valuable tips – thanks!
Also agree: networking networking networking – thanks for the motivational tips – you can never get enough of it
Same old shit. Where is the substance? This is mostly a good example how to get money from advertising in a useless blog.
Failure is an opportunity for change: It’s been proven that businesses that create an stiff or strict business plan do not do as well as a business that is flexible and can quickly change with the flow of the economy.
I have spent countless hours on projects I am giving up or changing for other opportunities that I believe will meet the demand of what has worked before and meet the needs of others.
My elevator pitch: I specialize in web marketing for the travel and tourism industry. I use a simple web design that lets employees login-to to make additions or changes. I create formal introductions to the major search engines, and if you like, here are some free ways to ways to enhance your social network-marketing ( as I hand them a card with a url that links to my social networking sites). Opens up the conversation to ——–.
I have definitely learned a lot from failures, and what I have learned is helping me build my next site.
Great tips.
Thanks everyone for your comments so far.
@Lee – no. 10 is indeed the most important1 If we don’t get it right and it’s reeeeally hard to do any of the others properly.
@TPN and @Sonali – thanks, glad you like it
@Antony – yup – and also one of the most daunting for a lot of people.
@Joomla – hopefully more freelancers will post their elevator pitches here. A tip for an effective one is to think about what the potential CLIENT needs to HEAR, rather than what YOU want to SAY. e.g. When I talk to small business owners, I usually start by asking them if they find the marketing side of their business daunting, and what specifically their worries are. I listen to what they’re saying and take it from there.
@Banago – thank you!
@Jack – you’re absolutely right: adapt or die. That applies to elevator pitches too! Thank you for sharing yours.
@Alex – seems we were typing at the same time
Failure is the only way we learn. We fall off that bicycle and graze our knees many times, but keep trying!
Very excellent post and advice. I agree with it all, even though #4 is a bit disturbing but it is very effective as you will gain business by exhibiting a great sense of confidence in your abilities regardless if you are the best candidate or not. This entire post is very motivational for me, as I am currently going through some rough patches in my freelance business, the past few weeks its been pretty tough finding new clients/business and I am not sure what this is attributed to, if its the economy, the season, my pitch or marketing campaign — whatever it is I now have the drive to continue because this post has reassured me that quitters are the only ones who fail! Thanks for sharing your insight!
Read, printed, and taped to my wall. This goes on my bulletin board of things to check off every so often.
Very nice post! I will put all those ideas in my daily line-of-thinking about my work as freelancer!
Thanks!
Thanks for keeping us motivated!
Stuff I’m sure most of us know, yet need to hear a reminder once in awhile to keep us moving.
Derek – Dotcom Labs
Great post – love the Gems
Thanks everyone for your comments and feedback. Regarding #4, I definitely didn’t mean that you should pretend to offer services that you don’t know how to fulfil – and I’m definitely not advocating dishonesty. I was referring to faking that you are *confident* only. It’s scary especially when you first go solo and the last thing you want is for your client to doubt that you can do the job, so if you know you can do it, put on that brave face.
Wow, thanks for this inspiring comment on business – its an overall look into things that can actually help everyone in here get things done on grow their own business. Good one !