The Dos And Don’ts Of Selling To Clients
By Tim Wall with Andrea Decker

Do you have loads of clients fighting with each other for the chance to hire you? If so, you can skip this article. If not, you likely spend some time selling yourself to potential clients. So read on, because we’re going to talk about the dos and don’ts of selling.
I wanted to get the scoop on selling from one of the best, so I went to Andrea Decker. Andrea is the Consulting Director here at our company, Element Fusion. Our consulting team spends all of their time drumming up business and Andrea is the most experienced and most prolific sales consultant we have.
So here they are – the dos and don’ts of selling – each summarized in a sentence with quotes from Andrea to further clarify.
DO
1) Listen to your client.
The single most important thing you can do to make a successful sale is listen to your client. Understand how his business works. Understand what pays his bills. Then simply present a solution that makes it easier for him to keep doing what he does best.
2) Build a relationship and demonstrate your expertise.
Business owners don’t usually want to become experts. They just want to know an expert they can trust – one who really understands their business and is interested in building a long term relationship.
3) Present solutions to your clients’ problems.
I don’t make sales. I do my clients a favor by introducing them to solutions that will help them harness the power of the web for their business/organization. If I can present a solution to my client he will be grateful and it is less like making a sale and more like entering into a partnership.
4) Recognize the point when you’ve won them over.
You’ve won them over when they start asking questions about the solution instead of asking questions about you or your work. You’ve moved from mistrust to trust. At this point, the rest is easy.
5) Communicate in the way (email, phone, in person) your client prefers, not the way you prefer.
Each method of communication is only as strong as the preference of the recipient. If you know a guy is too busy to meet but he is a telephone person then you should call him.
6) Appeal to both emotion and reason.
People buy on emotion but justify their decision with reason. Both are significant. You must inspire their emotions but also give them solid evidence that you are the right choice. You only hurt yourself if you don’t deal with both sides of the decision making process.
DON’T
1) Don’t try to make a sale without first building trust.
The worst thing you can do is try to make a sale or push someone into a decision without building trust. Build relationships instead. (see #1 and #2 on the “do” list)
2) Don’t waste your time with clients who don’t fit you.
Another bad thing to do is to waste your time on someone who doesn’t fit you well. You may need the business really badly and so you go after everyone no matter what, but the truth is that taking clients who don’t fit you will be worse in the long run because they will drain your time and keep you from finding the ones that fit.
3) Don’t waste money (and paper) on marketing materials.
All I need is a net meeting tool and a demonstration website. That’s about it. There’s no sense in killing any trees for marketing because as soon as you put ink on paper you’ll want to change it up. I like to stay as paperless as possible. Naturally, there are some types of businesses that might require printed materials but if you can avoid them, I would.
4) Don’t set unrealistic expectations.
Your goal is to have happy clients who pay your invoices. It’s extremely important to set honest expectations up front. To do this, you have to get very specific in defining the scope of your proposal. This will take more time at the beginning but will save you five times the effort on the back end trying to defend an invoice or correct a misunderstanding. Plus, it will protect your reputation.
5) Don’t nag, but don’t give up too early either.
Sometimes clients really are too busy to focus on your solution. So a ‘no’ might just be a ‘not right now.’ You don’t want to nag them by calling too often. So instead, find out when it would be ok to contact them again. Then, get a good reminder system and use it faithfully. Don’t get behind. Don’t end your day until everyone you were supposed to contact that day has been contacted.
Tim Wall is Director of Product Marketing and Andrea Decker is Consulting Director for Element Fusion, a leading web company and creator of several web-based software products including Light, the content management system for freelance designers.



Useful article, I especially like the advice about presenting solutions.
Yeah the bit about not showing anything on paper is interesting, very interesting..
There are two pieces in here that are phenomenal.
Recognize when you have made the sale! So often I see someone successfully sell the product or service only to keep going and then actually loose the sale. Sometimes, the greatest skill in sales is not knowing what to say but when to shut up.
Appeal to both emotion and logic. For most of us, emotion governs our instincts. dang I want to say more but got to run.
I believe one of the key qualities of a Consultant is the capability and flexibility to enter into a working agreement that transforms into a long term partnership. I am a part time seo freelancer and finding new clients has been my biggest challange yet and personaly I don’t prefer cold calling. I agree that blogging is a great way to network and possibly find clients but since the competition has been growing at the same pace as the SEO industry itself its very hard for new clients to find your blog. What are your thoughts on how to approch a new client (e.g ” small businesses) , via email , a demonstration or anything you like to add ? I think this is a topic that everyone craves but never talks about.
Watertown
That is a great point there are tons of blogs on the web and it can be very overwhelming for people to decide what is worth reading and what is not worth the time and effort. Here is a list of things that could be helpful in setting your information apart:
1. Make sure to have valuable information on your blog. This will help you to establish trust and people will start to think of you as an expert because they feel like you are offering them valuable information.
2. Make sure to keep your posts general. Talking about what services you offer is great but if it is not relevant to specific tasks or obstacles that people may be facing then you are just doing another sales pitch and not becoming a resource.
3. Make it available. There is a good blog post here Feedburner that well help you offer syndicated content that people can get on their favorite RSS reader.
4. Direct Traffic. Andrea had mentioned going paperless and this is a great way to get people to your site so they can see the other resources you have. Make sure to reference your site and presentations by making them available online, in new client meetings by referring to a specific post that relates to a problem they are having and by doing what you did on this post, including your URL when you post a comment on a blog.
Keep on blogging.
Your DO #3 entry is likely the most important for landing and keeping new clients: don’t sell, offer help! Selling is what you end up doing when it’s not a good fit. Offering help makes the deal a slam dunk (you can still miss, but it’s a lot harder to miss).
Judging from the photo, another “DO” is to make deals in dark, seedy rooms in front of a window. Just kidding – great article.
Great read. Very true on most of these points.
I have a large set of business cards; the only thing I have on print. I have to say, I have only used them occasionally. They seem to be a thing of the past?