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How to Win Clients with Time-Tested Sales Techniques




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I would never call myself a salesman. The word brings to mind a host of stereotypical, manipulative, sleazy jerks I’ve encountered who have very transparently tried to pad their wallets through coercive tricks. I have, however, worked some sales jobs over the years (reluctantly) and each provided lots of sales training, tips and tricks. Frankly I hated it, but when I left the world of sales to pursue a creative career I was surprised to find that my sales training comes into constant use when dealing with clients.

Below are five sales techniques that I find helpful for gaining and keeping clients and, more importantly, that I feel I can use in moderation and still look myself in the mirror.

A Bug In Their Ear

This is a trick from retail sales where you walk past a customer with you hands full of papers and say, in passing, something really positive about the product they’re looking at, then walk away. After giving them a little time you pass them again, this time not looking as busy. The idea is that they’ll stop you and ask you questions. You then start to sell.

I don’t personally feel comfortable with the above technique and have never used it as such. There is, however, an important principle at the bottom of it that I feel I can comfortably use. “Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.” While Newton was talking about physics, it can also apply to psychology. “We tend to retreat from aggression and pursue the elusive.

As a freelancer this leads to an easy, soft sales approach. Pick a client you would like to work for and mention an idea to them casually (“It’d be great if your website had…” or whatever) that pertains to what you do. Do not, at this point, mention the idea of you doing the work. Make yourself casually available for them to ask further questions of. If they like your idea, they’ll probably ask you to do the work.

The best thing about this technique is that it takes next to no time and costs nothing. Do this with many potential clients and wait; the worst thing that happens is they take your suggestion and hold you in high regard for it.

The Emotion Scale

A boss I once had presented the staff at a sales meeting one day with a chart of emotions. At the bottom were the negative emotions, progressing up into neutral emotions and at the top were positive emotions (unfortunately, I do not have the original chart, but the principal works regardless). He told us that people cannot relate to someone who is not within two emotions on the scale (ie. a depressed person will not relate to cheerful behavior).

If a client is showing negative emotions then carefully place your communication at just above theirs on the emotion scale. That is to say an angry client is best met with a tone of boredom or calm reserve. Without them realizing it, this will bring their emotions closer to yours. Keep moving up the scale each time they get closer and eventually you will have them neutral, if not happy. This will put you in a better position to create a positive resolution to the conflict.

F.A.B.

F.A.B. stands for Feature Advantage Benefit. It is very easy to fall into the habit of selling by listing features at length (“I can build you a website that does X, Y and Z!”). We must remember that while the reasons one wants those features seems obvious to us as experts in our industries, the client may not be as familiar with the terminology as you.

The F.A.B. technique suggests listing the services you’re offering as a feature followed by the advantage of that feature and how it benefits the customer. This will ensure that the client sees the real value of the work you’re proposing. For example if you are a copywriter you can say something like, “I have already worked for other clients in your industry (feature) so I already have some knowledge and know where to begin my research (advantage) which means I will take less time to write your brochure and we won’t need to make as many revisions (benefit).”

Be Santa Claus

Do you remember in the movie Miracle on 34th Street when Santa refers customers to different stores and the storeowner is angry until he realizes that the store is packed with customers who are lined up to see his Santa? Well, it turns out this really works.

It can be tempting as a freelancer to try to accept as much work as possible, even if it is outside of your strengths, but sometimes giving your clients a referral to somewhere that can do it better (or cheaper?) can result in them coming to you first next time. Keep a list of other freelancers and businesses that you know will treat them well and don’t be shy about giving it out. The client will love you for it and maybe the other freelancer/business will return the favor.

Ask For The Sale

It’s silly, but I’ve seen many sales not go through because the salesperson never asked “So, would you like to buy it?”. It feels like such a taboo to flat out ask someone if they want your services. Most of us tend to stall and answer questions hoping they’ll hire you. Find a not-too-pushy way of asking the question “do you want to hire me?” or “so, should we move ahead with this project?” and don’t be shy to ask it. If you don’t ask, they may go talk to someone else who will.

PG

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  1. PG Brandon Cox

    That last point – the “ask” takes me back to basic business classes and reading Dale Carnegie. Cool article taking us back to the basics.

  2. PG Kyle Racki

    The emotion scale is something I never heard of, and it makes sense. Does any one know where we can find the chart?

  3. PG DailyTrains

    Cool article. I might use some of the techniques to get more advertisers to my blogs.

  4. PG DKumar M.

    F.A.B. always helps me out with my new clients. I even like the idea of Santa Claus too. Nice Article Mark… well you just need to sip your coffee and read such articles.

  5. PG Paul Webb

    These are great tips, thanks.

  6. PG Mark

    I use to work for a mobile phone company and the one thing that was always drilled into us from the start was to “Ask for the sale”, it’s really easy to do.

    I’ll use the phone shop analogy. Customer walks in to shop, there is a good chance they are interested in buying a phone, so talk to them, explain features and benefits, then ask them if they want to buy it. Easy.

    This analogy can easily be placed into your own website or business card or anything with your details on it.

    The customer wouldn’t be on your website, emailing you or phoning you, if they weren’t interested.

    Great article. I really enjoyed it.

  7. PG Lisa

    I’m a huge believer in the Santa Claus principle. I send clients away from me all the time, and it always comes back to me in the form of future offers/referrals from the client I sent away and/or referrals from the colleague I’ve recommended.

  8. PG Andreas

    I hate selling, eaven if I know im greate and the client would make a greate deal. But this was some really good tips on how to do it nice without being that kind of sale-personality I hate.

    good work, Im going to read this alot of more times :D

  9. Hey Mark,

    This is a really good one. Fast tips people can put to use right now, nothing difficult and nothing smarmy at all. Even the “bug in the ear”, as you call it (and note you don’t quite like) is really just persuasive influence.

    The customer is never pushed and always has the choice. That’s the key.

  10. PG Roshan

    You have a good point. You don’t have to be good at everything, and they won’t believe you if you act like you are especially when you are new. But in a sales presentation, or when speaking with potential clients I think it is important to highlight the strengths you do have rather than focusing on your modesty too much or your weaknesses. :)

    Great article.

  11. PG Jennifer Wingard

    The emotional chart you mentioned sounds like the Abraham Hicks Emotional Guidance Scale from his book “Ask and it is Given”. The progression is as follows:

    1 . Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love
    2 . Passion
    3 . Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
    4 . Positive Expectation/Belief
    5 . Optimism
    6 . Hopefulness
    7 . Contentment
    8 . Boredom
    9 . Pessimism
    10. Frustration/Irritation/Impatience
    11. Overwhelment
    12. Disappointment
    13. Doubt
    14. Worry
    15. Blame
    16. Discouragement
    17. Anger
    18. Revenge
    19. Hatred/Rage
    20. Jealousy
    21. Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness
    22. Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness

    Hope this helps!

  12. PG Justin - YGG

    I have worked in sales all my life and it is amazing how salespeople will spend hours with a customer and not ask for the sale. I have seen potential client walk away and go right to the competitor who asks for the sales and the client gets it there.

    You have to ask above all else, if they say no, they will usually give reasons you can use to your advantage to make the sale. You have to ask 7 times on average before you get the sale. BE PERSISTENT!

  13. PG Timothy

    Wow. These tips really help. I will be sure to look this over again before my next client meeting. Thank you, I really appreciate this!

  14. PG Jt Hollister

    Thanks for the advice. All nice tips. And there is nothing wrong with being a salesman. The only time you should feel bad about using any sales tactics is if you are lying or the product you’re selling grotesquely over market price without being better. I don’t know why “salesman” has such a stigma about it, there is NOTHING wrong with one that doesn’t lie to you.

  15. PG Aaron

    These are great tips, I’d like to mention that when you ask someone about a big ticket purchase and what motivated them to buy they’ll 3 out of 4 times say because they liked the salesperson.

    Don’t worry too much about being clever… just be yourself, be positive and have faith!

  16. PG Paris Vega

    An emotion chart…whoa… that’s intense. Thanks for the knowledge!

  17. PG Jeff Baas

    Great article!
    I know how you feel about “sales techniques.” I think we get turned off at the idea of using “sales techniques” because what sticks in our minds are the time we’ve seen someone use those techniques with blatent intent to manipulate.

    But I think the problem isn’t with the so-called techniques, it’s with the intent behind it. Sure, if you use the Bug-in-the-Ear technique with the idea that “I’m going to trick this person into trusting me,” that manipulative intent will come through. But another person approaching the technique with the attitude that, “I’d like to let this person know that I’m available to help when they’re ready,” is going to come across as friendly, not as slimy.

    The good or the evil of these tips are not in the tips themselves, but in the desire to help (or the desire to manipulate) of the person using them.

  18. I wanted to first comment on how much I enjoy your site design, very clean and organized.
    My schedule lately has been such that I’m a little behind in my reader but trying to catch up. These were all very good tips and selling by nature is indeed an manipulative business. It is up to the salesman (or woman) to establish credibility and belief not only in themselves but also in what they’re selling. If it’s not something that you would personally want to own… you probably shouldn’t sell it.
    I agree that the “ask for the sale” is often an overlooked technique which strikes me as odd because that is the whole purpose. Adjusting your temperament to a level just above theirs wasn’t something that I immediately thought of so thank you for that. I’m by no means a master salesman myself but I certainly appreciate good advice. Thanks.

  19. PG David Hughes

    I also have heard (and used) a somewhat related method more along the “temperature” of the potential client on a scale from 1 to 10 in regards to closing the sale. Assume 1 represents “leave me alone and never call me again” and 10 is “where do I sign and here’s a check”. Once you have met with the client and made your pitch, if they do not answer with a hearty “yes, let’s get started” you can reply by explaining the scale and asking them where they see themselves on it. Almost no one will answer below a 3 – so there is always room to work to bring them to a 10. If the client says “I am about a 7″ you can ask what would it take to move them to a 10. Maybe they are concerned about the cost, or they aren’t sure if this is the best move for them or maybe they aren’t even the final decision maker. In any case you can use their answer(s) to make concessions or elaborate on areas they are unsure about or whatever else that will systematically help them get to a 10. In essence you are helping them remove all the excuses to not do it. Good Luck!

  20. Great post! It made me cheerful and hopefull and deeply motivated to: “Go, make some Business!”

    Thank you for sharing theese lovely sales-tricks. :)

  21. PG Jon

    As a tutor for a web design course in London, I’m thinking about adding some sales information to our course to help students actually get some paid work after completing the course. Your advice is a great inspiration. thanks!

  22. PG Al Gammate

    Hello Mark:

    I love your article! Very informative!

    Putting a bug in your customer’s ear is a good way to get him to drop his defenses and mentally digest what you have said about the product.

    Using the emotion scale is a good way to have instant rapport with your customer.

    Discussing product features with a customer, going deeper by explaining the advantages of the features to the customer, and going even deeper by explaining how the features can personally benefit the customer is powerful advice! I would think very few serious customers can resist this approach.

    It’s amazing that many salespeople skip this very important step: Ask the customer for the sale! “For every one that asketh receiveth . . .” Matthew 7:8 (King James Version)

  23. PG Cherry

    Thanks for this article, I found it really enlightening, especially the section on the emotional scale. Will definitely try it next time I find myself not knowing how to react to a client’s emotional state.

  24. PG Ahmed Elmasry

    very useful tips, thanks for sharing them

  25. PG Liora

    I like the tip on soft sales, ie. suggesting a good idea to a potential client.

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