Differentiate Or Die: Marketing’s Magic Bullet

From entrepreneurship to yoga to writing, I teach a lot of people a lot of different things. But, inevitably, when any part of the process comes around to using a certain basket of skills to make a living, we land on one major question—what makes you different than anyone else who’s doing the exact same thing you’re doing?
And, more often than not the answer is some variation of “duhhhhhh…what?!” Then comes a laundry list of skills, jobs, clients, references, portfolio pieces and more. All of which leaves me with 30-minutes less of life and still asking the same question. What makes you so different than the 100 other people who also have big, fat, snazzy resumes, skills, experiences and blah, blah, blah?
Why did I say blah blah blah? Because, in addition to training people to land business, I’ve been on the hiring side both for companies I’ve launched and built and for other organizations. And, after the first 15 or so interviewees pass through your door, blah blah blah is pretty much all you hear. Everyone starts to sound like the teacher in Charlie brown, unless you can…
Show how you can do what nobody else can do.
Question is how? How do you demonstrate a level of differentiation that is so strong it immediately sets you apart from the field? Hmmm. For some people, it’s an easy challenge, but for 99% of us, it’s brutally hard. But, here’s the problem. If you can’t differentiate yourself from all the other people who are slinging the very same claims of rock-star talent and magic results, how do you expect a client to?
Here’s an example.
Earlier this year, I was contacted by someone to write some hard-hitting marketing copy for a fitness infomerical product on extremely short notice. I did my usual shtick on the phone and, then, asked that magical question that always guides how I choose to differentiate myself. “What’s important about the person you choose to do this job?”
By simply asking that question, I’d already begun to differentiate myself. Nobody else asked. Then, I sat back and listened. And, within the first sixty seconds, I knew what I had to do. Here’s what I said…
“Okay, so you mentioned you needed this done in 48 hours. I write great copy faster than anyone, but I have to tell you, right now, I am slammed with work. [building value and urgency]
Here’s the thing, though. With your timing, the only conceivable way for you to get killer copy that fast is to work with someone who not only writes marketing copy, but really gets the core motivation, psychological triggers and buy buttons for the fitness market. Anyone else, it’ll just take too long for them to research the market and get up to speed.
You already know, I am sure, that I’ve not only written extensively for your market, but I’ve built two leading companies in the health and fitness space and been a personal trainer and yoga instructor, too. In fact, I may be the only person in the country who has both the industry experience and copy chops to do this job at the level you need in less than 48-hours.
And, from what you’ve told me about your product, it actually sounds like it would be a blast writing this for you. Hmmm. I’ll tell you what, if I can get another day on one of my other projects right now, I may be able to make this work.”
We talked for a while after that, but I pretty much knew the sale was over. I quoted top of the market fees and the next day, a Fedex with a 50% deposit landed on my doorstep.
What made this go so smoothly? Three things:
- I identified what was important to him about the job, and
- I showed him not how good I was, but how different I was, then
- I demonstrated how the specific differentiating factors would allow me to do the job better and faster than nearly anyone else on the planet.
When you differentiate, you are no longer fungible [just love that word].
If you stop pitching how good you are and start pitching how different you are and how that will make a prospect’s experience with you better, faster and easier than anyone else, you’ll not only land nearly every job you pitch, you’ll be able to write your ticket when it comes to fees.
Why? Because, if a client truly believes nobody else can do the job the way you can do it, price is no longer an issue.
What if you simply aren’t different than everybody else?
Then, my friends, you’ve got a big problem. You might as well just hang it up. Oh, oh. Actually, wait a minute. I just remembered something. Even if you think you are just like everyone else…you’re not! You just need to spend a bigger chunk of time listing out what makes you so different.
Maybe it’s the fact that you’ve animated more 3-D dragon lips than anyone else. Or, you developed a process in Photoshop that allows you to create mind-blowing images. Or, your copy generated $1-million in sales in 24-hours. Or, you have some highly specialized mix of unusual subject-area expertise and industry skills.
Maybe you do architectural renderings with your navel or deliver updates through a state of the art secure online client interface. Maybe you guarantee overnight service. Whatever it is, there’s got to be something that makes you not just experienced, but outrageously unique in a way that translates to better than anyone else.
And, my friends, if you’ve wracked your brain and you just can’t come up with anything compelling. Guess what. Neither can your prospects. Guaranteed, if you’re shooting blanks here, your career is in big trouble. And, if that’s you, then the time has come to do something bold…
Differentiate or die!
Do something now to make yourself different in a way that makes you indispensable. Here are a handful of examples of how different people have done just that, just to get your juices flowing:
- Blogging – with a bazillion blogs about making money online, Maki launches DoshDosh.com earlier this year, writes extraordinarily well-researched full-blown articles, instead of quick-hits lists and tears up the blogosphere in a matter of months.
- Copywriting – marketing maverick, Harlan Kilstein, draws upon his Ph.D in education and 30-year study of the science of persuasion, therapeutic metaphor and NLP to brand himself as the premier NLP copywriter in the world.
- Photography – My old neighbor from 55th Street (okay, so I don’t remember the dude’s name), a former real-estate developer, gets the bug to shoot photos and breaking from the entire industry, specializes only in high-volume table-top catalogue shots, creates a process that is so efficient, he can shoot hundreds of items in a day and charges a flat day-rate, rather than a usage rate. He’s booked for months making high six-figures while other photogs with decades of experience live hand-to-mouth.
- Design – This one is actually amongst the easiest fields to create strong points of differentiation, because anyone who has been doing it long enough to have stopped ripping off their influences and mentors has developed their own style. Just the way you can look at Water Lillies and know it’s a Monet, you can look at FSw or ZenHabits.net and know it’s a Ta’eed (props to the C & C team). So, advice here is to just immerse yourself in the process of cultivating your own strong style and voice.
- Coding – Okay, I am not a code-monkey, so I don’t have a good example here, but I wanted to include this in topic, so that all the CM’s who read this can share ways they’ve been able to differentiate themselves in the comments below.
- Marketing – Three words… Seth. God. In. Do I really need to say more? Snarky, original, authoritative, provocative, viral, a true purple cow.
- Bodegas – yeah, so technically, a bodega isn’t a freelancer, but the little grocery store by me does one of the coolest things I’ve seen as a way to differentiate themselves from the five other mega-stores around it. When you walk in, strategically located throughout the store are those plastic, tear-off bags that you put your veggies and frozen chicken in (if you’re a bacteria freak like me). But, rather than just laying the bags out or having them on the roll, they’ve opened them all and rolled them down like socks ready to go on, so you don’t have to sit their cursing the fact that you can’t get the damn thing’s open. Genius, sheer genius!
Share how you’ve been able to differentiate yourself in the comment section below.



Hi Jonathan,
I have a list of golden rules for my business. “Differentiate or die” has just enter that list!
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Jonathan – this seems very similar in theory to the “USP” point on marketing and is an area I worked really hard on when I first started my own business – funnnily enough as a personal trainer & holistic health coach. Given my prior business experience as a CRM & strategy consultant, I moved on to become a business coach for colleagues in the industry and my differentiator was the fact that I not only had the PT experience but also the business credentials which helped me make a success of my own business.
More recently, I experienced a new challenge…in that my differentiator – the fact that I am location independent and travel the world permanently whilst running my coaching and consulting business – could have been perceived as a negative what with the potential impact on my clients. I struggled for ages with how I could make this a positive differntiator, until I realised that it was all about demonstrating how I am walking the walk and not just talking the talk. I realised that I’m building and running a business which is enabling me to create my own ideal lifestyle – ultimately, I’ve found that’s what most of my clients are looking for…so it’s now a great differentiator rather than a perceived weakness.
Once I realised this, it had a huge positive impact on my existing business – and opened up new opportunities.
A good way to differentiate, that really works for me, is cross-discipline. I’m not the best recruiter in may company, but I have some knowledge (and practical experience) in 3D modeling (catia, pro/e), coding (php, xml), quality management (kaizen, tqm, six sigma), coaching/personal development and that makes me unique (in a good way).
wow, this article is actually useful. I have bookmarked it so I don’t forget when I an down.
Jonathon i seriously love your style of writing and yet again you have hit upon a subject of differentiating yourself in an era when we are surrounded by cookie cutter blogs, subject areas, content and design. When i first started freelancing i had a tough job working out exactly how i was different and what i could offer, it wasn’t until i wrote down my entire skill set and how all these skills/talents could benefit potential clients that my business started to take off. It’s certainly not easy as you point out and i think it has got to be something that you work at, keep updating your skills, keep your eye on future and emerging technologies or concentrate on certain niches/areas and perfect them.
Your three points are a fantastic way to pitch to prospective clients, personally i think this is one of the most powerful articles on FSw to date!
“Maybe you do architectural renderings with your navel” – surely there’s a niche in there somewhere!
I just bombed my differential calculus midterm yesterday, for some reason this post makes me sad
Jonathan, I really dig your approach in the phone interview example. That move clearly pays off, and I may have to take it on my next round of job interviews. Thanks for your thoughts.
Hi, right, we got a differentiate ourselves from the rest, definitely agree. I work as a freelancer developing web applications, and I guess a good way to differentiate ourselves is to keep up with the latest techniques available. Things are changing all the time, at least in my specific language, ruby. Now a days, the hottest stuff is Behaviour-Driven-Development, a way of creating quality software that if easier to maintaing and extend as you have a solid base of “tests” which allow you to make changes without worrying to much about breaking other parts of your code, as you will now imediately if you break something and you can fix it as quickly.
I think that differentiates yourself, because most software don’t have enough testing to allow you to do changes in a confident way, resulting in downtime and not doing some changes in the application due to the danger of breaking what is quite a complex system.
Read this blog if you are interested in BDD
http://blog.davidchelimsky.net/articles/2007/10/22/plain-text-stories-on-rails
Yes, yes, yes, and YES! Oooh, this rocks! Thank you for showing such a specific, usable technique!
Very good article and really motivating. However, we run into a problem when the thing that distinguishes us the most is also not something that is likely to help us land the type of work we seek. I have many years’ experience working on e-learning courses for accountants, but that’s not going to help me get more children’s books to edit. Doable but difficult and I’ll have to keep the idea in mind to find some angle. (I used to have the angle that I was younger than a lot of other freelance editors and more in touch with a young audience, but then I hit 30.)
Question for you, Jonathan:
“In fact, I may be one of may be the only person in the country who has both the industry experience and copy chops…”
Which did you actually say?
Nice article but it needs to be proof read before posting.
First paragraph:
“But, inevitably, when any part f the process comes around to using a certain basket of skills to make a living, we land on one major question”
Between “part” and “the.”
And…
Third paragraph within the blockquote:
“In fact, I may be one of may be the only person in the country who has both the industry experience and copy chops to do this job at the level you need in less than 48-hours.”
Maybe you meant to say “I may be one or I may be the only…” or even “I may be one of many or I may be the only…” or “I may be the only….”
Jonathan,
Very useful and well written article.
If at all possible, please give Casey L. Jones a “Gold Star” for noting the mistakes in your blog. Without her assistance, I would never have been able to decipher your message… geeeeez.
Hi Jonathan your blog came up as a Google alert for marketing and nlp so this is the first time I have come by your writing. I am impressed and fascinated with the content of the post and range of your comments on this one, especially the proof reading
Copywriting is such a core skill in marketing that you need that USP, differentiator, magic bullet to make sure you have your place. You appear to have that place in spades! For me I am trying to show in my blog how NLP can be used to make the message more powerful and copywriting is a skill which uses NLP effectively, like Harlan Kilstein tells us. Thanks for the insights, keep up the good work and I have RSS linked your blog so I can keep up to speed with your posts.
Thank you for that very usefull article! But you forget to mention the copywriter Brian Clark who writes on copyblogger.com and specialized on copy writing for websites and blogs.
Hey gang,
Thanks for your always great insights! Apologies for not replying yesterday, was under deadline for a book I am writing, turned in the manuscript yesterday, so my eyes have been pretty fuzzy. Of course, I’d love to blame the typos on that, but hey, dotting the i’s and crossing the t’s has always been my weak point (nothing a bit mawr cawffey shouldn’t ficks, ey!)
In the conversation I had where I was pitching the infomercial client, that line should have read, ““In fact, I may be the only person in the country who has both the industry experience and copy chops…”
And, yes, Brian’s CopyBlogger.com is a fabulous example of how a blogger immediately differentiated himself out of the gates. Which brings up another big thing for writers, in general. The two biggest ways writers can differentiate themselves are by (a) developing a very strong, unique voice, this is what all the great authors and poets do, and, for copywriters (b) combine that powerful voice/style with highly specific industry knowledge. So, guys like David Deutsch know the financial industry backwards and forwards and have insane copy-chops. that combo makes him a super high-ticket go-to guy for that market.
Great stuff Jonathan! One more key to differentiation that I will add is to learn framing. You MAY just be like someone else. I mean-ditto! But-the job goes to who can frame their skill set better.
I’m going to differentiate today!!!
Thanks for the awesome post.
ZM
Thanks Casey! Fixed those typos, Collis and I left Sydney for a couple of days for a bloggers conference and this was put up in more of a hurry than usual
By the way guys if anyone wants to digg/reddit this article, do so here:
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I just differentiated, and I feel marvelous.
Nice Stuff Jonathan!..^^..thanks for sharing it with us..^^..
“What’s important about the person you choose to do this job?”
Awesome question, Jonathon. I’ve tried something similar and yeah, it gets a good response.
Thanks
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