Another Look at Networking Groups
Martha RetallickThree years ago, I noticed my design business starting to slip. And, wouldn’t you know it, that slip soon became a slide.
So, I tried various things that I’d heard were good for businesses like mine. Here’s how they worked out:
- Advertising. It proved to be a fabulous way to attract price-shoppers and tire-kickers. No more ads for me.
- Direct Mail. Although I had been diligent about sending postcards to the people on my in-house list, I found that they were becoming immune to my mailings. This, despite the fact that I was doing telephone/e-mail follow-up after each one. Combine this with the fact that printing and postage costs have really gone up, and you can see the reason why I’m now just an occasional mailer.
- Mentoring. I signed up for a local mentoring program. And got an experienced mentor. Since the business was deep into Slide Mode, I started exploring career alternatives. Well, in this particular mentoring program, exploring alternatives was bad, very bad indeed. So, I was kicked out.
- The Networking Circuit. Oh, boy, does this one get a lot of airplay in forums like this. The idea is that if you join the business/professional groups, go to their meetings, and get involved in the running of the groups, business will come your way. Didn’t work for me.
I even got involved in one group to the point of volunteering for but two major projects. In the course of that volunteer work, I found that the members did very little business with each other. Referrals occasionally happened, but if you’re in business for yourself, you can’t pay your bills occasionally.
- Seeking Publicity. Although this works wonderfully for some people, I’ve found it very tough to pull off here in Tucson, Arizona. Our local media is a very tough nut to crack. I also found that, instead of seeking publicity, I’d be better off if I just cut to the chase and sought…
…clients.
And that what motivated me to pick up the phone. I covered my cold-calling system in this July 31 Freelance Switch article. I’m going to be referring to the Ideal Client Profile concept developed in the cold-calling article, so why not have it open in another browser window.
Networking Groups Revisited
When I’m referring to networking groups, I mean groups that are organized around:
- Sharing leads with fellow members. You’ll often hear these called leads clubs.
- Owning or working in businesses within a certain locale. Chambers of Commerce would fall into this category.
- Gender or ethnicity. The (U.S.) National Association of Women Business Owners is an example.
- Being of a certain age. For example, the Young Professionals Organization is geared toward people in their twenties, thirties and forties.
- Owning a business or working in a certain industry. These are trade associations. You name the business or industry, there’s probably at least one trade association for it.
For some freelancers, networking groups work quite well. Others have experiences like the one I described above. And, as a result of that experience, I’ve cut way back on networking meetings.
But, since many freelancers want to give the networking circuit a try, here are three tips to make it work.
- If you’re like many freelancers, you’re not just there to network, you’re there to get work. But understand that this process can take months, even years. And, if you’re trying to turn your business around, you don’t have months or years. So, networking groups may not be the best route to take.
But, if you’re hoping to make a quick sale, try some after-meeting follow-up. Let’s say you went to a lunch and sat next to a lady from a government agency that has quite the budget. You would love to do some work for them. So, you get your lunchmate’s business card and call her within a day of the meeting.
Tip: Don’t delay on the follow-up calling – people quickly forget who they’ve talked to at meetings.
When I make these calls, I say, “Hi, Jane, this is Martha Retallick. We met at yesterday’s ABC Club meeting.” I pause and give Jane a chance to respond. Then I ask The Question: “Does your agency hire outside designers?” A direct approach, to be sure. But it can lead to work.
- Instead of going to this, that, and the other meeting, focus on groups that fit your Ideal Client Profile (ICP). If you’re looking to do business with biotech companies, find the biotech trade associations and start attending their meetings. You might be tempted to join right away, but I recommend going to as many meetings as you can before you’re required to write the membership check. Annual dues can be pretty hefty. You need to check the group out before you spend the money.
In addition to going to the meetings, call some of the other member businesses and asking if the group has been a source of good clients. And call the group’s board members. A couple of years ago, I was considering associate membership in a local trade group. After attending their monthly meeting, I phoned the board member who’d given a “state of the industry” report.
Since he was a longtime member, I asked him what he thought about designers as associate members. The group certainly fit my ICP, but his response was quite revealing. He said that he’d never seen designers having any sort of lasting success. So, I thanked him for his honesty and passed on joining. That honesty saved me many hundreds of dollars that would have been spent on dues and monthly meeting fees.
- If you join and start volunteering for group projects, be careful. Why? Because we creatives have a very high EQ. That stands for Exploitation Quotient. What this means is that we’re often hit up for freebies “for the group.” This includes such things as:
- Designing or redesigning the group’s website.
- Becoming the group’s copywriter. For all of their written materials – and their 100-page website.
- Re-programming the group’s membership database.
And on it goes. While there’s nothing wrong with doing these things, you are in business to make money, and you’d best be sure that the time you put in on this “for the group” work will result in paying work down the road.
You don’t want to end up like a designer acquaintance of mine who reflected on her time in a well-known women’s community service organization. She said, “They got a free newsletter out of me, but I didn’t get any business out of them.” Needless to say, she’s no longer a member of that group.
After reading these tips, you may decide that the networking circuit – and all of its meetings – just isn’t for you. And you’re not the only one. I recently read Larry Winget’s book, It’s Called WORK for a Reason! He shares the following thoughts about networking groups:
“I would steer clear of networking groups and their meetings. I know that will get some of you riled up. About half of all salespeople live and die by their networking group. Networking groups are usually just salespeople trying to sell their stuff to other salespeople.”
Okay, okay. I understand that we’re not grubby salespeople. We’re much better than that because we are (dramatic pause) creative freelancers.
But, even if we are creatives, we’re still in sales. There’s no getting away from that fact.
Winget goes on to say, “Unfair to networking groups? Ask everyone in their networking group where they rank among professional salespeople in their industry. My bet is that very few, if any of them, will rank in the top 25 percent of their industry in terms of results.”
But we still need to get out of our creative caves and interact with the rest of the world.
Winget advises readers to “Get involved. Get known. Go to charity events, civic events, wine tastings, art fairs, church, whatever. Be around people. Not with a handful of business cards to pass out. Don’t even go with the idea of getting more business. Instead go there and get involved in the event. Be the kind of person others admire, can count on, trust, and enjoy spending time with. After you have developed that reputation, people will start to ask you what you do and you will be amazed at how many people will want to work with you.”
I’ve been applying Winget’s advice to my own life. Since I already spend enough time at the computer as a designer, I don’t do that in my “Get Known” time.
Instead, I’m building my photographic skills and portfolio by doing the camera work for my neighborhood association and various grassroots community groups. The pay is nonexistent, but the learning opportunities and contacts have been priceless. And I’m finding that the composition skills I’ve developed as a photographer have strengthened my design work.
And so we reach the end of our tour of the networking circuit. I hope that it has been helpful to you.






















Zoran
September 30th, 2008
Great article! Thanks for advices!
eberlin
September 30th, 2008
Interesting article. I am attending quite a few networking events at the moment and I find them useful, and I do generally get some viable interest from them. Converting the leads into paid work has proved a little more difficult so far, but I do think that work will come over the next month or two.
However, one of the reasons I go, is to get out and meet other small businesses. They may not want work from me, but we can still share information, concerns and ideas. It can be very easy to become insular when you are working on your own. Networking groups provide a great reason to get out.
Steve Bjorck
September 30th, 2008
Excellent article.
I have attended several meetings of various networking groups and my girlfriend, who also runs her own business, was a member of the largest international networking group for several months. The reason that she left before her years membership ran out is because the group, just like all networking groups, was primarily a business designed to make money from the members rather than encourage business relationships. We’ve also been extremely disappointed with the work carried out by all four of the people that we hired through the group…I guess that’s why they weren’t generating their own referrals?
You don’t need to pay a premium for a lousy breakfast or spend a months pay on a membership, just get out more! Networking isn’t about meeting referral targets and passing work to people in the same club. You should pass work to people that you trust and build relationships on that trust, not because you share a breakfast once a week.
If people need to join a club and beg for work every week, surely there’s a deeper problem? Perhaps your past clients aren’t recommending you for a reason and maybe you’re not very good at selling yourself?
Akshay
September 30th, 2008
Very interesting article indeed.
How I got out of the slump was thanks to a friend who would pass on a profile of mine whenever he went to meet his clients and I would in turn pitch his related business wherever I would go. This did lead to a few good projects, not great but enough to pay some bills.
I have a very strong referral program where clients get free updates, hosting or a nice gift for getting me more work.
Also I have really worked on diversifying my skills - I am a photographer, a designer, content writer and a coder.This also keeps me on my feet and makes projects interesting.
Remington
September 30th, 2008
I enjoyed your article Martha. I really think you’ve nailed a lot of points. For people to want to hire a freelancer they need to see benefits that don’t always come with impersonal networking.
insic2.0
September 30th, 2008
nice article indeed. Maybe i have to do something like whats in the article too.
Allena
September 30th, 2008
I am completely newb at this kind of marketing, outside of the canned experience of a full time position ((Inside)) a marketing dept. Here’s my 2 cents:
Why should I go to people who *may or may not* be looking for my skill, instead of spending that same 2 hours going directly to the people that I *know* are looking for my skill- ie, job listings? Freelance job leads? And etc?
I am asking this question, I truly wonder.
Roshan
September 30th, 2008
Great article. I am also new for this type marketing. I almost get all work from word of mouths and recommendations. But I would love to try new things.
Thanks again.
Doug Heacock
September 30th, 2008
I’m re-entering the freelancing world after many years in a “regular” job, and your article was very helpful. I think that virtually all of the freelance work I’ve had has come through relationships I have had with people and word-of-mouth; the last time I got a job from a cold-call was in my short-lived lawn-mowing business at age 12…
Barbara
September 30th, 2008
Yay! Martha. Great article with dead on accuracy. I’m a designer that also runs a collaborative networking group (Self-Employed Creative Professionals). I did the networking circuit to the point of exhaustion a few years ago and found it super draining - not only financially and physically but emotionally as well. Our group’s mission is to be a community for writers, designers, photogs and others to collaborate and share experiences with each other (there’s a lot of teaming up going on as well), and our events focus on running and growing your business. It’s so important to have a supportive community around you. Newer members are always asking what’s the best networking group or leads group in town and I tell them not to bother. People with ‘work’ don’t go to those things. And you’re exactly right, we’re the ones that get hit up to ‘volunteer’ our services for the group. Isn’t it funny that the dentist is never asked to provide free services! We have to avoid ‘de-valuing’ our services by over volunteering. (that’s a huge mistake I made early on and I got the reputation as the person to go to for freebies). Your suggestion to be seen around town as a person to know is excellent. Might I add to always be sure that you behave in a professional manner as well. Seems obvious, but unfortunately many ‘creatives’ in our community give us a bad name by acting like ‘weirdos’ and are really a little scarry. It makes the business community a little cautious of creatives. Please act with integrity in all aspects of your life and the trust will follow.
Good job Martha.
Emmi
September 30th, 2008
Allena,
Because it’s good to get out of your office. Because you get in touch with what other people like you do. Because you invest your time for the future (not always near) for very interesting jobs that you might never find online because online it’s always really framed, defined, boring there…:)
melek
September 30th, 2008
it’s funny how some things work well for some, not so well for others. i’ve never had ANY luck with direct mail, advertising, or cold calling. i’ve had some hits from publicity. (in your city’s Business Journal, if you sign a deal with another company, you can submit a ‘Deal Report’ and get a little blurb for FREE. I’ve had quite a few ppl comment on those. - check out bizjournals.com)
But networking has always been my bread and butter. and i don’t just mean with specific groups, but with friends, neighbors and family too. I work with about 6 friends for their companies. They referred me and the work started flowing. My main networking group has been a HUGE source of work and referrals for me. it’s a very small group and we’re all dedicated to helping and using the other member’s services. it took a few months to get my first gig from the group, but after that word spread and now i’ve done probably 10 projects (print or website design) from that group. of course, the people in this group are made up of my ICP, so that helps too.
good article. i like the suggestions for other methods of getting new clients.
Klaus
September 30th, 2008
Excellent article!
I think the main point is “Don’t even go [to an event] with the idea of getting more business.” According to my experience, business (especially as a freelancer) comes through one’s personal network. Not necessarily always from refereals form existing customers (although they are the best), but quite often from people who know you and know what you are doing. When they get asked “Do you know somebody doing X”, chances are that they pass on your name.
So when you meet new people, don’t do the hard sell, but make sure you keep loosely in touch (e.g. an email next day: “Thanks for the nice conversation” helps, and a personalized Xmas email (NOT SPAM!) with some personal notes is great to bring your name back as they “guy offering X” (a link to your homepage will do, don’t write about business in an Xmas memail
Klaus
Jack McDaniel
September 30th, 2008
Some networking groups are more powerful than others. I’ve been to a few that are quite lame. But I’ve also found others that very high powered. One here in Denver attracted some of the best, most successful business leaders and developers from around the area. The speakers were always worth listening to and the average attendee either owned their own (successful) business, or was upper management in a firm. It’s the quality of people involved and the way you present yourself that matter the most.
That said, direct mail is way more successful for me!
Michael Woodward
September 30th, 2008
I am a member of BNI. It has been a huge success for my design company. We have generated close to $40,000 this year from being a member. I would be careful about what groups you join. Some will have a benifit, others will not be worth joining. It’s not for everyone, but it’s worked for us.
I think people need to try different streams of advertisement and find what works for them. To make a blanket statement that something doesn’t work is dangerous….just as dangerous as saying something is a sure thing. Networking is work and demands the investment of consistent time and trust through relationships of the members of the group.
But then again, this is just my experience.
Donald R. Anderson
October 1st, 2008
Situation: In 2005 I had started a new web design business with a graphics artist as my partner, called Tree in a Forest. I was challenged with making the websites to the customer’s expectations. I worked at odd hours and overnights to do . (I have worked on several other sites since. I work on websites with custom service). I had started to achieve profit over cost in my web design business, though despite this success we were hampered by lack of any advertising budget and tried to get business solely on word of mouth, which eventually failed.
K.Folie
October 1st, 2008
After reading your blog, thought you would be interested in this…
CNBC will be airing “The Entrepreneurs” on Wednesday October 1st at 10p ET featuring the founders of Feed Granola Jason Osborn and Jason Wright. They will be discussing the methods which led to their estimated three million dollar a year business. Additional web extras can be found at http://theentrepreneurs.cnbc.com
Please let me know if you would like any additional information.
Thanks,
Kevin
Brian
October 1st, 2008
Martha, maybe the reason you don’t get any business is because you’re not any good?
neemie
October 2nd, 2008
Interesting article Martha. But you left off on a cliffhanger. How did you recover from the slide?
Vlad
October 2nd, 2008
Good article!
I too think that spending money for memberships in networking can prove o be a waste, instead I found it very useful to keep in touch with old friends and colleagues as many of them started a business or have a management position and either needed my web design and programming services or referred me to their business partners.
Brian
October 2nd, 2008
I disagree with this article’s take on networking immensely. It seems that the approach here was to wait until the business was slipping, then try to jump into as many networking situations as possible in the hopes of finding work.
It’s not about going to meetings. It’s about *building* *your* *network*. They’re related, but not synonymous.
I only went into freelance consulting because I was strongly encouraged by friends and acquaintances I met through years of going to meetings — not to find work — but to share ideas with other people who do what I do. These are people who, if they had the need, would hire me, not because I showed up for a meeting, but because I participated in the group and helped them out with problems over the years, and was generally a friend to them. They’ve helped me out, too, and taught me plenty.
It’s not like you can just show up to a few meetings and expect people to trust you enough to give you a referral when there are 15 other people who they’ve known for years that they could give that referral to. It might happen, but to be honest, it would surprise me.
Kevin Crawford
October 3rd, 2008
Okay, this is a little bit off topic, but… how about developing a niche?
I work half time at a small web services company (3 employees + our boss), and our niche is in new home builders in California. We’ve got a very nice and steady flow of work–a lot of e-mail newsletters advertising homes for sale, and different new home communities are popping up all the time under a variety of different builders. There’s a lot of maintenance for their websites as well–prices change constantly, certain home models get sold out, etc.
In addition, by knowing our niche very well, we can explore other services that would help them. We wouldn’t know these things if we didn’t know how their sales and marketing processes go. We’ve built a new home listing service that can be rebranded for other localities, and we’re currently building an application to allow sales agents to send out their own e-mail newsletters.
I admire my boss very much–our company is quite successful. For our holiday party, we’re being flown up for an all expenses-paid vacation (+ 1 guest each) to San Francisco for a 3-day weekend! So stoked!
Gas2Eletric
October 4th, 2008
Networking events! So obvious, yet so underused! This is great advice you have here. Another great piece of advice that hit home with me is “We have to avoid ‘de-valuing’ our services by over volunteering. (that’s a huge mistake I made early on and I got the reputation as the person to go to for freebies)”.~ Barbara. Its priceless advice, especially to newcomers to the freelance world. This is easy to fall into. DO NOT DO IT!
the famous nemo
October 6th, 2008
you mean I can’t go to networking events just for the food and hope lighting stikes.
Martha Retallick
October 6th, 2008
Neemie asked a very good question: “But you left off on a cliffhanger. How did you recover from the slide?”
The answer is: I’m still recovering from the slide. And, by way of a out shout out to Kevin Crawford, part of my recovery involves finding a niche and prospecting within it. Matter of fact, I just got back from my university homecoming weekend, and, oh, did I find a lot of people who fit my niche. So, I’m going to be doing a lot of following up this week.
One more thing: I was out there on the networking circuit before the slide started. But, slide or no slide, I have found that networking meetings are better for burning cash and time than they are for finding leads who could turn into clients. To me, they seem like boss-paid lunches out of the office for the employed people and a tax-deductible social life for the self-employed.
Cam
October 6th, 2008
Here’s two tips I have
1: seeking out work and following up makes you look desperate and it’s kind of a turn-off for your would-be customer. Get in the mindset of being someone who is picky about which clients to accept because they have so many to choose from. Make them want you, because you are oh so great at what you do.
2: make sure all your friends know that you’ve got the skills to do what you do, and they will send people your way whenever someone asks them, “do you know anybody who can make my website?” or whatever they ask, if your friends are good friends, they can help you get customers without even trying.