Keep Your Sanity by Managing Client Expectations

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Being a freelance web designer certainly has its perks. You get to make your own hours, set your own rates, and control your own professional destiny. I’d add that designing for the web, like any freelance field, is a craft that most of us are truly passionate about. There’s something about the merging of beautiful design and cutting edge technology that keeps our creative juices flowing and keeps us endlessly engaged in our work.
But as any freelancer or small business owner knows, sketching diagrams, arranging pixels and constructing code make up only a small part of this profession. At the beginning and the end of the day, it’s still a business, which brings it’s own inherent challenges. At the top of the list is something we all must deal with every day: managing client expectations.
In this article, I intend to cover several aspects of working with clients as a freelance web designer (but these tips apply to any freelance profession, really). These are all based on my own experiences and lessons learned the hard way.
The tips I offer here will benefit not only the health and stability of your business, but your own personal health and well-being as well. Stress is a killer. When you’re running your own business, stress often goes unnoticed to outsiders as and sometimes yourself. By effectively managing your client relationships, you’re also keeping your own stress level in check. When you’re feeling good, you do good work and prosper. It’s as simple as that. So let’s get into it.
The initial point of contact
A potential client’s first contact with me is usually via the contact form on one of my websites or a direct email. These initial email inquiries tend to fall all over the map in terms of how much info they provide, level of “seriousness,” urgency, etc. Everybody is different.
The first thing I try to control here is my response time. I want my first response to be in a timely manner in order to show that I’m a good communicator and readily available for consultation. However, I also want to be careful not to fire off my response minutes after their email lands in my inbox. First of all, that’s kind of creepy. But more importantly, I don’t want to set the wrong precedent. If I come back with a super-fast reply the first time, they may expect this level of responsiveness every time moving forward. That’s a recipe for trouble. If their email arrives in the morning, I try to answer it by end of the day. If it comes in around 5:00 pm or later, I’ll respond the next day. I rarely answer work emails during weekends as I try to set very clear boundaries on when my normal business hours are.
Another expectation to control during this initial contact phase is the client’s budget vs. my rates. The most common first question clients ask is “how much do you charge?” Of course, I can’t provide a quote until we fully discuss the project and determine the scope. However, sometimes it may be a good idea to provide a very rough ballpark range on what you charge. This helps to filter out those clients who’s budget are well below my rates. It doesn’t make sense to spend valuable time on consultation and proposal writing if we’re in two different ballparks.
The project proposal
The proposal might be the ultimate definition of expectations for a client’s project. My proposals serve to spell out three main components: The project scope and deliverables, the time estimate, and the price quote.
Defining the project scope and deliverables are extremely important. I take special care to include as much detail as possible here. It usually consists of several descriptive paragraphs and bullet lists covering everything from how many rounds of design revisions to which web browsers will be tested. I’m making sure that all potential disputes are avoided with a thoroughly documented project scope.
The time estimate is another important piece. I usually break the project down into several phases such as “planning and design,” “development,” and “content, testing, and launch.” Each gets an estimated number of weeks to complete. I often pad my estimates to account for extra hurdles in this project as well as managing my other ongoing projects simultaneously. Remember, just because you’re a super-fast developer doesn’t mean you should be quoting two-day turnaround times. Pad your estimates while keeping deadlines reasonable and you’ll save yourself loads of unnecessary stress and late-night work sessions!
Phone calls, emails, and IMs
Working as a freelance web designer takes great discipline in time management. You need to split your time between being available for client consultation and dedicating long stretches of uninterrupted, focused work time. For this reason, it’s very important to clearly define your communication policies.
I make a point to respond to all emails within one business day. I try to follow the advice of Tim Ferris by checking email only once in the morning and once in the afternoon. This way, I can dedicate solid work sessions in the middle portion of the day while staying on top of client communication at the beginning and end of the day. I admit, sometimes I break this routine and check email more often than twice, but I usually let new emails sit for a few extra hours before responding in order to keep response times in check.
Unexpected phone calls are often more disrupting than emails. They require you to fully break away from what you’re working on and engage in a consultation which may last anywhere from 10 minutes to over two hours (yes, I’ve experienced calls this long). I make a concerted effort to schedule phone calls with clients via email. Rather than respond an email inquiry with “Sure, call me anytime tomorrow” I prefer to say “Let’s discuss this over the phone. Does 3:00pm tomorrow work for you?” That way, I can plan tomorrow’s day around it and avoid stressful interruptions.
Instant messages from clients have proven disruptive as well. While I think it’s a good idea to be openly available for chatting over IM or Skype, I make a point of requesting that clients send me work requests via email and not over IM. This way I have their request filed in my inbox where I can easily reference it later. Instant messaging and Skype should be used for online meetings and consultation, which I also try to schedule in advance.
The client’s perspective
Some of my practices described above may come off as cold or off-putting to clients. In actuality, I find clients appreciate the way I conduct my business and manage their projects by setting reasonable expectations and consistently meet them. This is how I maintain a reputation as a reliable web design expert, which I believe is the key to building a strong freelance business.
By sticking to your policies in a respectful and professional way, you’re also maintaining your position as an expert in your craft. If you allow your clients to overstep the boundaries of your professional relationship, either by demanding a rushed deadline, working on a weekend or accepting a discounted price quote, you’re effectively devaluing your work, which can have many harmful impacts on your business.
Believe in your ability to deliver quality work, meet or exceed expectations, and you’ll keep your clients happy while keeping yourself sane!
Photo credit: milesdeelite on Flickr



Thanks for the insight. I’ve been working with a client recently who is very “low-tech” and it’s been quite an adjustment for him. He constantly calls, or sends follow-up emails if he doesn’t hear from me within a few hours. I had to inform him (politely of course) that I don’t answer phone calls or emails when working on projects because of concentration issues. And presto! He’s been completely fine with scheduling calls ever since, and has a renewed trust that I will answer his emails in a timely manner.
Most of the time, all it takes is one notice and an understanding client will cooporate
I need to put some of these practices into effect… I have a habit of firing off emails all day to get them out of the way and I do see that clients seem to start to expect things like this.
Boundaries are essential to good client relationships. It establishes “professional” relationships where your clients know you work hard within the scope you have set.
It also pays off when something goes wrong, scope is changed, payments are not made, etc. Clarity is the key to freelance business success.
You’ve included several really helpful suggestions that many of us forget about, especially around setting boundaries. Some clients may find them off-putting, but the truth is that nothing you’ve suggested it out of the norm for other professions, e.g., doctors, lawyers, auto mechanics…! But often ‘creative types’ are expected to be more flexible and freeform. Setting boundaries is an important part of a healthy client relationship.
@Seth, @Michael – boundries are key, especially when one is just beginning their freelance career. When I started, I didn’t realize how important it was to keep enforceable business hours. Either I was afraid clients would leave me because of slow response times, I was so into my work I didn’t know when to take a break! That has changed now…
Agreed Babs, I have always taken the time to explain the reasons for my time management and scheduling with my clients, and it seems that as long as boundaries are set from the beginning and spelled out clearly I have rarely had a problem with it. In the rare cases when I have had problems with clients overstepping their bounds or getting angry because I did not respond to an
e-mail within 30 seconds, they have usually ended being the type of client that I end up not working with in the long term due to their attitudes, attributes, and overly aggressive behavior over the course of time.
I agree that managing your responsiveness is key. I agree that responding within a couple of hours is acceptable as long as your consistent about that. You do not want to be too available otherwise you may find yourself hand-holding and being constantly interrupted.
I personally hate phones myself, especially unscheduled calls. It’s the random and immediate interruption that totally kills concentration. I prefer to do my work through email so I can go over it before sending to the client to make sure everything is clear and nothing has been overlooked and then I have a record of all communication.
Thanks for the great article!
The hardest thing for me is not checking my email, but when I don’t, I am very productive.
I think I can check it at least 20 times a day, especially sometimes I need to review certain conversations, while I am just getting another 2 incoming; hard not to check those out..
I know what you mean. I often break my own rules and keep the email inbox open. But yes, it’s important to block off a few hours and “go dark”.
Check out the app, “Think” for mac. It might help.
I totally agree with the issues with using the phone. I request all work requests are sent via email so I have the request in writing and can keep it on file. If I’m in the middle of working on something, I won’t answer the phone if it rings. I’ve gone so far as to change my voicemail to include my email address prompting people to follow up their vm with an email as I only check vm 1x a day. This has worked very well.
Great article!
Great post Brian. This should be required reading
Your policies are spot on and your communication style is excellent. Whenever we’ve worked together you’ve always delivered exactly as expected. Thanks for sharing and keep it up.
Bravo, Brian!
One of the best posts I’ve ever read in FS. You’ve summed up the golden rules of freelance very succinctly, making this not only a great intro for newbies but a relevant refresher course for veterans.
No 1 was especially resonant for me. I recently lost a client because I did not “provide a very rough ballpark range” on what I charge. I pride myself on customizing my quotations based on every client’s unique requirement but sometimes, that could work against you. Having a rate card or ballpark figure saves time for both parties; not only to help you filter out the ones whose budgets are below your rates but for your client to decide whether they can afford you.
Looking forward to more posts from you!
If I come back with a super-fast reply the first time, they may expect this level of responsiveness every time moving forward.
I make a point to respond to all emails within one business day.
By sticking to your policies in a respectful and professional way, you’re also maintaining your position as an expert in your craft.
I agree that your practices aren’t cold at all. It’s about planning a consistent policy and sticking to it, which you seem to be doing very well.
Once your clients have a clear view on what your policies are, they will be more respectful of how you work and hopefully they will appreciate the professional approach you put in it.
Great tips! One of my clients this year reminded me why these rules are essential. If you start answering outside of work hours clients start assuming you will always do so. They take you for granted and it’s downhill from there with very little appreciation for the extra availability.
It’s difficult to impose these rules on new clients and even more difficult on old clients; it’s essential to start this as early as possible.
awesome post – i some excellent points/tips here!
Thanks for sharing these tips that will help me keep my sanity in managing my clients. Sometimes, they think that being a freelancer means you have a lot of free time for those emergency calls. I think that consultations that last for an hour or more should be paid because in the real world, you do bill for those hours. You don’t simply go to your doctor’s office and take an hour of his/her time without having to pay for that hour. If you tell your client this beforehand, I’m sure he or she will limit talk time and give you more time to focus on work at hand.
Question: Do you publish your communication practices? Tim Ferris recommends putting a signature line in emails but that feels pretentious…
Also, do you publish your policies anywhere else? Website? Contract?
Thanks!
Excellent points. This is a nicely written article.