Beyond “Strictly Business Relationships”
Robert JanelleMany of us tend to keep our clients at an arms length; they tell us what to do, we do it, they give us monies, everyone is happy.
Personally, though, I’ve had more success and enjoy my work a lot more by moving beyond the “strictly business relationship.”
Getting to know clients on somewhat of a more personal level helps them see you as more than a voice on the phone that makes articles, graphics, websites, etc appear and can make repeat business more likely, or it could increase the likelihood that they’ll be more willing to help you in other ways later.
As an example, a few months back, an editor asked me to drop by his office to pick up some documents he wanted me to use for an article. While there, we start talking about politics and before I know it, we’re looking for an angle on the issue we’re discussing for his publication and I walk out with a second assignment I wouldn’t have gotten had we stuck to business.
It could often involve just an extra 10 minutes of small talk, but that 10 minutes can go a long way to getting referrals and repeat business.
Get to know them
You can learn a surprising amount people with that extra few minutes of small talk, but you can also get to know clients simply by doing a bit of homework. As a writer, I always study a client’s publication - what kind of articles do they editors write themselves? What positions do they take in their editorials? With other industries, it can simply be a matter of checking their website or blog if they have one. There you can learn about their hobbies, sense of humour and political inclinations, all of which can be great fodder for discussion at meetings.
Go out for coffee
If both you and the client have time, meet in a non-business setting to discuss the project. This offers a more relaxed meeting and makes off-topic conversation less awkward. Of course, in a coffee shop, it’s also important to remember business and not to spend too much time on chit-chat.
Thank you notes and holiday cards
A little note of thanks after a project can create some good will and keeps communication open after the fact as well. Sending out holiday cards is also a nice touch, it’s inexpensive, doesn’t take long and a non-pestering way of reminding people you’re still alive and available.
Touching base
Being an information junkie, I’m constantly scanning newspapers, magazines, blogs and any place else I might learn something. If I happen to see something relevant to a client’s publication that they probably haven’t seen, I might shoot them a quick e-mail bringing their attention to it.
Sometimes even just checking in to see how things are doing for them can lead to more opportunities. In one case, I called up an editor of a small magazine to see what has happening over in his world and learned that he was drowning in work. After offering to help out with this situation, I had myself a few hundred dollars worth of assignments. Not bad for a five minute phone call.
Be yourself
This is where many freelancers tend to disagree with me and some would even call it unprofessional. I don’t create a separate business persona, the people I work with are well aware of my irreverent sense of humour, my vices, strengths and yes, weaknesses.
I’ve seen friends who do the professionalism act and they always seem to come off as horribly fake and I usually have to leave the room if they’re doing business. I don’t see the point. My clients know I’m a human being and showing it makes it easier to find common ground, plus it can often give us other points of discussion to jump off on. Besides, everyone needs a good laugh now and then.
Obviously your time is important and so is your client’s, so remember not to be a pest, but checking in briefly or an extra few minutes of conversation can go a long way.




















Mary-Ann Horley
June 16th, 2007
Never occurred to me not to do this… Good article though
Kreig Zimmerman
June 16th, 2007
Agreed! I myself have always believed in this philosophy as well. The simple fact is, people want to do business with their friends, normally. An overly professional manner can be alternately off-putting or intimidating.
Having said that, it is also likely that in some cases your friends (and others) adopt that persona for pragmatic reasons. Sometimes, they are just not naturally affable; being either insecure, or worse, having certain personality “flaws” which you may overlook yourself.
Regardless, I myself do feel the same.
Fiaz Khan
June 16th, 2007
The personal approach was a route i decided to take with my personal site (www.nextbigleap.com). This new approach is pretty much summed up on the home page and carries through to the rest of the site.
Before i was that business persona which didn’t really work. Simply making that change from “WE” or “US” to “ME” and “I” made a huge difference. I ended up feeling more relaxed with my clients and am now, with most, on personal terms with them.
They have become aware of my strange sense of humour and way of working which means my work has improved as i no longer need to be someone i’m not.
Benny
June 16th, 2007
I agree.
I do it this way too and I find it helps me a lot. You get to have a lot more opportunities when you know your clients personally and it’s more fun too!! The possibilities are larger. They will have friends of family members who perhaps have business too in need of my services.
Maybe it is because I’m still young and I dislike boring business styles of business. We are not robots. I like to treat my business relations as friends and not as numbers. I think it works well for freelancers like us who has less clients relatively to very big multinationals.
I try to be myself and it works quite well. I like it this way!
Business is built on relationships.
no.e
June 16th, 2007
I’ve found that my most rewarding and best producing client relationships are the ones where I can be myself, enjoy my time with clients, joke around a bit and share some sort of personal connection.
It’s a balance, though. You don’t necessarily want to be best friends with your clients and you don’t necessarily want to get TOO personal. I’d have to agree with a previous poster - some people just aren’t cut out for this kind of relationship with clients. Maybe those people aren’t cut out for freelance — or their clients are like them and far too business-like.
Part of it definitely depends on the industry. For example, most of my clients are either in entertainment or technology, or I fill a gap in a design studio’s lineup. This is much different than, say, working a government or NGO contract. In those cases, I tend to be far less personal and considerably more business-like.
Luke
June 16th, 2007
Robert, I couldn’t agree more.
However, there are “times” when I have to keep it on a strictly professional level. Mainly with more “corporate” accounts/clients that just can’t interact any other way when it comes to business.
I’ve always been of the philosophy that that if you can’t laugh and have a good time getting the goals/work/project accomplished, then you’re in the wrong business.
On the other hand, I’ve also got clients that I can “tease” and have a laugh with. One such client was having a bad day, and I “threatened” to send a mutual acquaintance to their door in a clown suit with a big red nose if they didn’t “cheer up”. A laugh was had, and the client pulled up out of their slump. Even if it were just for that time on the phone, it still brightened what was a rather dismal day.
When I interact with clients of this type, it sure does make it a lot easier to get things done. It also makes it more enjoyable on both sides, vice something where they go “ugh, I have to put on my game face and call the web guy again”.
I tend to base it off of each client, and let them set the tone. However they feel more comfortable, that’s how I roll with it.
I will say though that sometimes true friendships can be forged. Although rare, I’ve got a couple good friends now that actually started out as clients. Not from something where they saw they might be able to get an advantage, but a true friendship.
While it can be a bear sometimes when you deal with clients, it can also be a rewarding experience that can last a lifetime.
ColorThreads
June 16th, 2007
Good post.
I agree about bein’ my self. And from my experience when you get know you clients more as people, it helps you feeling like you are buddies and it certainly helps business.
Anne-Marie
June 16th, 2007
I’ve been doing holiday cards for a couple of years. It’s a great way to touch base, and thank them for the business they’ve thrown your way. I also include a couple of business cards and maybe an offer for a free 1-hour consultantation.
Tobie Langel
June 16th, 2007
I think it all boils down to that interview of Justin Palmer in Technologica (http://tech.nologi.ca/?p=34):
Technologica: Why do you have such a scary picture [of you] on your portfolio site?
Justin Palmer: Because I have a since of humor, and it weeds out potential clients that don’t.
Ed Kohler
June 16th, 2007
Excellent article. Business relationships are based on a lot more than just business competence. Given two competent people to choose from, people will always give money to the person like know and like better.
Jermayn Parker
June 18th, 2007
I agree with you in what you have said…
However hears something I would suggest and that is to try and meet at a neutral location. I personally just had an experience were meeting at a clients house I was verbally threaten…
Shawn
July 4th, 2007
Great points!
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