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The Best Customer Relationship Tip You’ll Ever Hear



Finding customers is hard.

It’s hard for everyone, but especially for freelancers – they’ve got too much to do, not enough time in which to do it, and they’d much rather be doing what they do best than networking and prospecting for new business.

Which is why, once you’ve found a good customer, you can’t afford to lose them.

And yet, freelancers do – all the time.

Here’s why – and what you can do about it…

Living and Breathing Your Work

If you’re a writer, you live in a world of writing. If you’re a designer, you live in a world of design. If you’re a consultant… well, you get the idea.

Freelancers live in a world of their own expertise.

If you’re a writer, you live in a world of writing. If you’re a designer, you live in a world of design. If you’re a consultant… well, you get the idea.

The result of living and breathing your area of expertise is an incredible attention to your work. You know the difference between good work and bad work, and you know the difference between great work and merely good work.

When a design is good, but not great, it grates on your sensibilities. When writing is clumsy, you can’t help but reach for a red pen.

Which is why your absolute focus once you’ve landed a job is on doing the work, and doing it very, very well.

There’s only one small problem with that…

It’s Not About the Work

Unfortunately, the quality of your work is not the most important factor that determines how your customer thinks of you, and how satisfied they will be with the engagement.

That’s because your customer doesn’t live and breathe your area of expertise, and they probably can’t tell work that is slightly better from work that is slightly worse.

All they know is that they need a job done, and they need it done well. They hire you because you’re the one who understands the details.

Which is great for you, in that it pays your bills, but not so great, in that your customers aren’t in a position to evaluate you on what you do best.

But they will evaluate you… so what metric will they use?

It’s About the Relationship

The answer is the relationship.

They can’t tell the difference between designs that are slightly better and slightly worse, but they can definitely tell between a freelancer that they like, and one that gets on their nerves. They want:

  • A freelancer that they trust, rather than one who they don’t, or can’t.
  • A freelancer who is reliable, rather than a freelancer who misses deadlines.
  • A freelancer who is responsive, rather than a freelancer who takes days to answer emails.

So, which are you? Can your customers trust you? Are you reliable? Are you responsive?
Let’s say that the answer is yes… how will your clients know?

Remember, It’s Not About the Work!

Delivering your project on-time and on-budget is a good start, but it isn’t enough. Most projects run for weeks or months, and your customer won’t wait until the end of the project to form an opinion about how good a job you’re doing. That’s what freelancers often forget, and it’s how they lose customers.

They land the deal, and then they retreat into their home offices to do the work. They’re focused on that work, and don’t want to deal with distractions.

Distractions like their customers.

That’s where the problems start. Yes, customers can be annoying sometimes – they can nag, and want updates even when there’s nothing new to update (and it’s clearly laid out in your project timelines).

But even though the customer isn’t always right, they definitely get to decide whether they like you or not.

So… how do you get them to like you?

The Tip: Answer Your Emails!

It really is that simple – just answer your emails.

All of them, and every day. If someone emails you today, they should get an answer today. Or tomorrow morning, at the absolute latest.

It shows your customer that if they need something, you’re there. It keeps them from worrying, before the worrying ever starts.

It shows that you’re a professional, and it shows that you care.

This sounds simple, but it’s a huge part of how I built my consulting practice, and it’s a huge part of how a lot of people built their audiences.

So now that you’re done reading this post, head over to your inbox – and clear it. Answer every email, and make it a daily habit.

Your clients will thank you.

Photo credit: Some rights reserved by yanikphoto.

PG

Danny Iny is an author, strategist, serial entrepreneur, expert marketer, and the Freddy Krueger of Blogging. Together with Guy Kawasaki, Brian Clark and Mitch Joel, he wrote the book on how to build an engaged audience from scratch.



  1. PG Ray Vellest

    I have to say that besides being a very well written article is also quite inspiring. On a matter of fact, I was in a deep need to hear this words. Thanks Danny! :)

    1. You’re very welcome! :)

  2. PG Cesar

    Yep, answer your email. And ask your clients to use email instead of the phone, too :)

    1. Haha, I like it! :)

    2. PG Parks Thompson

      I would agree that email is fantastic, but often customers would rather talk on the phone with you, so I wouldn’t tell them to solely use email.

  3. PG Deb

    Oh yea I already do that! I always reply my client emails immediately.

    If I am lagging behind schedule for an update because I was being lazy wasting time browsing Reddit then I’ll just make up some silly excuses, but REPLY I WILL!

  4. PG Wes McDowell

    I couldn’t agree more. I hire out developers prety often, all of whome produce good, quality work. The ones I hire over and over again are the ones who respond in a timely, professional manner. The ones who seem put out by requests, or who don’t even respond to the requests I rarely hire again.

    1. Yup, I’m exactly the same way. :)

  5. PG Wiktor

    A question to ask here could be:

    How do you “email-train” a very phone-reliant, or otherwise non-emailing client? What techniques and arguments should you use?

    1. I don’t know, but if you find a way, I want to know! ;)

    2. PG Brandscaping

      The trick I use to email-train them: tell the client that my memory is dodgy, but an email provides me with a record I can refer back to without bothering them. This usually helps them understand that I value their time and recognize that they are busy.

      Very nice article, Danny!

    3. That’s a great tip, Branscaping. I’ll have to try that! :)

  6. PG Cat Noone

    Wiktor and Danny, i’m not sure that a salesman who can sell water to a fish, can even train a phone reliant customer to answer emails! haha.

    My fiancee and I had a client like this once and dealing with him was impossible. However, he decided that calling constantly wasn’t enough. He then would send text messages to discuss changes that he randomly thought of (we use google voice for both of our phones when we’re on the go) !

    It was a nightmare. Great article though and very good tips. I totally agree. Thanks for this!

    1. That does sound like a nightmare!

      I’ve had clients like that, but I’ve learned to dump them pretty quickly – they’re just waaaay too much trouble. :)

  7. PG XuDing

    Answering emails on time is such an important task to do daily as a freelancer.

    Client will appreciate even if you just give them a Yes or No answer.

    However, you should not keep your email back and forth between client and you the whole. How do you do that? Just tell them “we will get back to you tomorrow”. Remember, always answer your emails.

    1. That’s a really great point, XuDing – you don’t have to answer them them right away, as long as you reply and tell them when you will have an answer for them. Thanks for pointing that out!

  8. PG melanie

    being friendly of one of the customers will really help you to make your business get bigger., this is a nice article.
    hope you’ll post something about customer and freelencer quarelling.!
    does that happen? maybe just a misunderstanding.!

    1. Oh, it definitely happens. Is there a specific type of situation that you’d like me to write about, Melanie?

  9. PG Tim

    This is quite possibly one of the best articles I’ve EVER read here… Danny – just awesome. Quite inspiring actually.

    Thank you.

    1. I’m thrilled that you liked it, Tim, thank you very much! :)

  10. PG Robert Solomon

    I’ve written a book about this subject — it’s called, “The Art of Client Service” — and I contribute regularly to a blog on the same subject, caled, “Adventures in Client Service.” if you’re interested in learning more about how to build and sustain enduring rleationships based on trust, I suggest you visit http://artofclientservice.com to learn about the book, or http://adventuresinclientservice.com to read the blog.

    Yes, you will confirm that follow-up — including answering emails — is important. You also will learn about scores of other techniques that will serve you well as you work with clients.

    1. Robert, your book sounds great. Thanks for sharing! :)

  11. PG Jason Fonceca

    Hearing you loud and clear.

    Learned this the hard way, I turned out genius level work for years, with minimal, lack-luster results.

    Why?

    Not enough understanding and focus on relationships :)

    Combine the two? BAM.

    :)

    Great stuff Danny.

  12. PG Madeleine Johnson

    If more people followed your advice about responding to emails – and even made it a priority to provide updates without being prompted – there would be a lot more satisfied customers in the world. A very helpful article!

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